11 approach to deal with the shame of the opposite sex
Find a lot of the same people who are under the influence of the shame of the opposite sex significantly, and they are at the top of their disorder when they are on the face especially in the face of a handsome young man, or a beautiful girl, people do a lot of confusion, and find in themselves the ability to talk to them normally, and thus lose a lot of opportunities to get friendships or business relationships, or even link the relationship of affection, here we are trying to explain the most important thing you should know in order to avoid the shame of the opposite sex altogether, and be able to deal with people of the opposite sex with ease and confidence.Your way towards overcoming the shyness of the opposite sex
1 Find a way to start talking, and introduce yourself in the beginning to provide self is perhaps the most difficult things, a start talking may always be a problem in talking with the other party, you need if you want to have a good opportunity to talk with the other party to be able to choose how to start a proper talk, preferably always that you are not home are asked to talk, or attempt to present yourself (that is the next step), but you should try to make conversation is fabricated, like to comment on one of the things out loud, trying to not directs to speak directly to the person you want Bmhadtth, after that conversation going so well, you can give yourself is fun or serious, and is also brief.
2 Do not worry about the other side until you have overcome shyness of the opposite sex of the opposite sex, you can convince yourself of the fact that the other party may be blushing a bit when dealing with you too, you have to behave with the other party with confidence and realistic, you do not have to worry about lack of other party impressive story of your hair, or your appearance, or way of thinking, just try to be as completely you, do not try to look like him, who are not you.
3 Be where you are constantly trying not to show the character is the character that you it really, do not lie, or claim what is not in you, all these things are very bad impact on the nature of the relationship between you in the future, even if it led to the influence of my time making a kind convergence between you on the spot, you'll not only be what you really are.
4 act like you're talking to one of your friends in order to remedy the shame of the opposite sex pretend like you are talking to one of your friends, not to an individual of the opposite sex, this is very useful in the treatment of shame of the opposite sex, which would be very Btabiatk when dealing with one of your friends, Take a lot of jokes, and acted as you are completely, do not worry that you will not reach perfection, no one is able to reach to perfection at all, make sure you carry defects, every person who has flaws, but you may admire a people somehow in spite of weaknesses.
5. Do not try to be very romantic Do not try to speak in a romantic, or a nice plus for too much, talked at the outset with the other party, either in earnest, or is carrying a lot of fun, and the second option is the best, Valmrah removes a lot of differences between the two parties and helps you communicate with him a lot better, you have your speech starts a lot of sentences that reflect the Alastltaf should not be, it may make things worse, it is possible to feel the other party ashamed, and therefore ashamed of the opposite sex is transmitted to you of course.
6 Do not propitiate a lot, and ActiveX courtesy one does not try to be very complimentary, then it will turn against you in the end, you have to Petknak one courtesy, a choice of one thing in order to propitiate the other person to be, and should this courtesy be honest or unnatural, but it should be quite real compliment to convince the other party that you are quite mean what could I have said, for example, you do not play for the girl as the most beautiful girl in school, but enough that you have that you admire the story of her hair or her taste in choosing colors for her clothes. Not too much courtesy as we have said, because it will come back to you a lot of damage in the end.
7 Think first in the subjects that you want that you discuss them with the other party thought of the topics that will be put to a debate with the other side, you are preparing a lot of topics, and even written in the paper, in order to be ready to open one of them if I was surprised in the middle that you do not find what you're saying, the debate and talk about general things dissolves a lot of differences between the parties, and that Asaadkma Tbdia talk a lot of joy. Of topics that could open it with the other party, for example: the debate about public affairs, or politics, or sports. Talked about your preferences, sports teams, and the types of music, and the things that you love, it would be very good if they found a common preference between you. Talk about the stuff I've ever done on holiday or in the summer. He talked about a mutual friend between you. Talked about your plans for the future, or even the next day.
8 Think of questions as a director you ashamed of the opposite sex. If you find yourself too shy, and can not overcome the shame of the opposite sex, and can not find any thread discussing with the other party about it, you can play to start asking questions on the other end, you that is committed to several things in the process of asking questions in order to benefit them to take full advantage: do not ask very personal questions. Always Fasten your questions, for example, you can say: 'I have a pet dog, what about you?'. Stop when you find the questions that the other party has become afflicting them, or is that you interfere in what none of your business. Threads of questions that you can do by asking in order to avoid the shame of the opposite sex: questions about personal preferences. Questions about hobbies and sports practiced by the other party. Questions about family or relatives or friends. Questions about the intellectual or political trends. Questions about the opinion of the other party in an order or group of things.
9, then by definition it yourself by mentioning the questions, you may not find that the other party is responsive with you in the sense that it does not try to ask you questions put to him, in which case you have to take the initiative by introducing yourself, and answer some of the default questions about yourself, in other words, speaking about yourself a little bit, do not wait for the other party should be asked to do it, do not let the shame of the opposite sex that prevents you from offering the same well.
10 conversation if it did not go well if the conversation did not go well between you and the other party, or if it did not find sufficient acceptance, do apologize, and went away. You do not have that you embarrass yourself with someone who does not want to happen to you, or the ridicule you.
11 phase of your abilities consistently with the other party your conversation a lot of people, talk with people of the opposite sex, is a skill like any other skill, and when you talk with more people group, you do increase your skills, become more able in the future to be locked good discussions with a number of persons of the opposite sex, and significantly reduce the shame of the opposite sex. We discussed in this article, a large number of methods to avoid the shame of the opposite sex, as we talked in the beginning that he must find a way to begin to talk, and try to present yourself, and then you should not worry at all from the other party, and behave quite naturally, as you should be where you are, in fact, and act like you are on a conversation one of your friends, and do not try to be very romantic and gentle, and only courtesy and a single, and think first in the topics you want to do to discuss it, and you have to think about the questions as a way out of the embarrassment of the party the other, and you have to play your own definition, and finally you have to end the conversation if you have not gone well, and you'll always be developing your abilities in dealing with others in order to avoid the shame of the opposite sex.